My client Susan, a dedicated loving retired teacher found out that her ’theme’ was not being seen and heard, compounded with feeling unloved. Susan compensated her feelings by being an over-giver so that she would feel loved.
She was constantly choosing to over-give to the very people that didn’t see or hear her … they never gave back but kept taking what she was always generously giving. She somehow ended up as a scapegoat and got blamed and shamed for things that weren’t really true. Then she would work even harder to convince them of her love and openness and innocence.
Through our work together she realized that she was unconsciously trying to teach her family of origin and co-workers how she wanted to be treated by them, but they weren’t seeing or hearing her silent teachings through her acts of kindness and generosity.
Often, the teachers that worked in the same school as her, were distant, but also felt open to using her generous offerings to use her templates for Susan’s teaching materials. Eventually Susan’s health was compromised and this is what brought her to work privately with me.
Through the Soular Healing Method® and E.F.T. Susan realized that she wasn’t seeing and hearing herself on the inside and, she was actually abandoning her wounded Inner Child just like everyone else was in her outer world. Susan discovered how her buried anger was eating away at her.
On one of our Skype sessions, Susan appeared despondent and apathetic and was not present in her body.
She also reported that she was a ’10’ out of ’10’ on the suds scale (subjective units of distress used in E.F.T.) of feeling huge unbearable anger.
Susan believed that it is spiritually wrong to get angry and that she needed to forgive everyone in her family so that she could win her health back. (note here that her idea of ‘for-giving ‘… was through out of balance giving)
She also reported that she was so tired of being good, and turning the other cheek.
This really got the anger churned up and we artfully connected with her wounded Inner Child. Using the evidence in her outer world to reflect her inner world and how she was abandoning herself first every time she over-gave to those that hurt her, really helped her to see how her Inner Child needed her to stop putting others first.
It was as if a large ‘Gong’ went off inside of her. Susan had a huge awakening about her own messaging system and how she wasn’t seeing and hearing herself on the inside first!
Susan’s is now practicing reversing the old ways and she now has humour and health back as her foundation to support loving herself first.
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