In today’s teaching video, I am sharing what I call THE PENDULUM TOOL.
Use this video to see & feel where you make your decisions from. The grey area is where most of us were taught to put everyone first and ourselves last. My clients find it helpful to see the different stages of waking up from a victim position. Awareness of the grey area is the first step to changing it.
THE PENDULUM TOOL
View my 8 minute video here:
SIDE EFFECTS OF VICTIMHOOD MAY INCLUDE:
- Feeling powerless & wanting to be rescued
- Inability to make clear choices & a strong need to let others decide for you ~ vagueness, confusion & forgetful
- High anxiety & judgement with anger at the ‘system/s’
- Archived messes repeat & affect digestion … your intuition is not allowed to play and guide you …
- Cave when it is time to take responsibility for your own opinion
- Finances are at an all time low. On the flip side, if your finances are ok, the deficit might show up as emptiness in meaningful relationships and or health
- Your receiving muscles are turned to ‘0’ and you can’t receive what you already have
Ok, so now that I have awareness of where I am co-creating from, what is the next step to changing this pattern?
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