Open Your Inner Door To You
If you still don’t know what your Soul’s Mission in this lifetime is, you may be asking yourself the wrong question!
When I first meet a new client, they are usually standing in a juicy tangle of unhealed stories and limiting beliefs from the past. After decades of the same old disappointments, it is easy to end up feeling victimized by your own creations.
To the untrained client that is just learning how to take their power back, they are usually asking, “Why does this keep happening to me?”
The ‘WHY’ question will drop you right into victim energy. It will feel helpless and hopeless and your power station will be running low on fuel to support and supply life force energy to heal your life. Ouch!
When a person asks the ‘Why?’ question, they will be distracted by negative self talk answers from the shadow parts that are disconnected from you, the adult.
All of the unhealed stories of failure get stored in the tank, below the throat. The throat is also your 5th chakra, your communication centre.
Ever notice if all the unhealed junk in the tank gets triggered, it’s really hard to talk or express your feelings? Maybe you feel a huge lump in your throat as if there is a traffic jam blocking your ability to be grounded and centered?
I see a visual representation of that person’s energy field piggybacked with broken hearts and black story boxes that they are unconsciously co-creating through. Again … Ouch!
Those tightly packed black boxes travel with you wherever you go. It’s impossible to activate joy and be grateful if you are buried in your own stuff. ( even worse, other peoples stuff )
The very best question to ask, drumroll …
“What is it that my Soul wants to learn by having an adventure with this recurring issue in my life?”
The idea is to get the learnings and pattern interrupt the old stale limiting beliefs. Repetition with the new way to be is key here. In order to brake the code of victimhood and needing to be rescued, do your best to be curious and stay neutral as you explore and mine for a wise soul answer of what your Soul is wanting to learn from this..
I am not diminishing the suffering or saying that you are a victim … we are just calling it like it is.
Awareness and accountability are your new training wheels that will retrain you out of this pattern.
Notice the broken hearted parts that are corded to the black story boxes. These broken hearts don’t know that ‘adult you’ exists … they only identify themselves through the familiar story of suffering and abandonment.
The Soular Healing Method® uses the wisdom of the soul to grow through and out of ancestral patterns of abuse and encourages communication with the sub-conscious deeper self. The SHM® is a spiritual way of life and uses E.F.T. aka Tapping to bring those shadow parts home and build adult confidence in all areas of your life.
You Are The One You’ve Been Waiting For!
However, if you didn’t get the support you needed, or if there was a pattern of abuse present in childhood, you will need to teach this new way of being to yourself.
The good news is, I can support you through those changes so you can turn your life around.
Don’t ever give up! You are dearly loved. Remember that as you go through your day today!
I still have room in my calendar if you want a hand. Book your complimentary 20 minute Discovery Call here.
